Posted December 14, 2022

As Christmas approaches, there’s a buzz in the air as people decorate their homes, attend parties, shop for gifts, write out cards, etc. For some this is a happy buzz, for others it can be stressful and overwhelming, actually leading to a dread of Christmas. As a self proclaimed introvert, I prefer to celebrate quietly. I realized that as an adult I can decide what traditions to celebrate for Christmas and every other day.

Decorating my home is on the list for essential traditions. After putting up my tree, I invited my 7 year old friend, Ladybug to help me put on the lights. This is the third Christmas we’ve done this, and it’s always documented with a photo that I actually print out and put in an album. Each year she can reach a bit higher on the tree. I love making these memories with her. Other decorations include a red ribbon with snowflakes on my front door, along with a wreath and jingle bells that ring whenever the door is opened. My large, multi-piece nativity scene has been donated to a thrift store, and I now enjoy a cute, one piece nativity scene that easily fits in the box with the ornaments. There are a few other Christmas items out on display, but nothing that takes up too much room. Clutter makes me cranky.

Also on the list is to write and send out cards. The past few years I’ve actually taken the time to make the cards, using card stock, calligraphy and an original haiku. Although this may seem like a lot of work, I really enjoy it. It’s a way to connect with people, to let them know that they matter to me.

Next on the list is to watch A Charlie Brown Christmas. That happy music makes me want to dance every time I hear it! You’d be hard pressed to find something more joyful. And then there’s the sweet voice of Linus reciting from the Bible to tell Charlie Brown what Christmas is all about. I look forward to watching it every year.

The last thing on my list is to read A Christmas Carol. I’ve lost track of how many years I’ve done this, but it’s about 10. In years past I’ve read it from beginning to end, but this year a new tradition may have started; choosing to randomly read the most heart warming parts.

Maybe you enjoy some of these as well. Chances are, you have your own list of what’s important to celebrate. But if you feel that something has been missing, maybe this is the year to really think about what delights you and what is meaningful for you. Do what you can to make those things happen. Perhaps it’s also time to think about if any traditions are weighing you down. Would it be possible to stop giving time, money and energy to those things?

However you choose to celebrate, I pray that you have a joyful time making happy memories with those you love. I invite you to share some of your favorite traditions in the comment section.